Hey, I’m Ben Weissenstein. I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was a wee lad. I’ve been dream chasing from day one. It started with drawing and selling “art” to babysitters, then lemonade stands starting around age 4, then Ben’s Job Co. around age 7 (doing odd jobs for family and friends) and then Ben’s Pet co. also around age 7 (taking care of pets for family and friends while they were busy or out of town).
After that, I ended up starting Grand Slam Garage Sales (GSGS) in 2004 (at age 14) after my mom had a garage sale and I saw the need for the service was very real. I’ve been grinding with GSGS ever since.
Also in high school, I started throwing concerts. I started by throwing a concert with Lil Flip and then ended up throwing several more with Flip across the country. I ended up meeting Cory Gunz while I was in school at the University of Arizona and ended up booking shows for him before and after he signed with Lil Wayne’s Young Money. Also, booked shows for some other mainstream rappers as well.
The journey so far has been crazy.
The grind has been intense.
I’ve had all sorts of ups and downs. See below (no particular timeline, but all REAL events.)
The guy who signed me to Dick Clark Productions (DCP) ended up getting a job offer elsewhere. Long story short, the guy who took over didn’t give my project much attention. I asked to get out of my contract since they weren’t doing anything to push my project, plus I previously had offers and contacts from a bunch of production companies and networks. DCP let me out of the contract but no companies (out of the first several I contacted back) were interested when I came back to them as it was already about a year since they originally contacted me and since I went elsewhere to begin with. I ended up deciding to hold off on the reality TV stuff for a little while to focus on my business. (Thankfully, that was a good decision.)
We bought a box truck, put most of what I had in the bank at the time on the truck and the truck ended up dying after a flood less than a year after purchasing. The engine they said was going to cost over $7k so we held off and decided to rent trucks. It didn’t make sense at the time to just go buy another truck or spend $7k on getting a new engine installed.
Rain outs…had garage sales scheduled that got rained out on several occasions. This always creates a mess as for money already spent to get our workers out there, then not being able to make any money, then it being very hard to get the person’s sale back on the schedule quickly since typically we had traditional (driveway) garage sale bookings for a month or two out. Rain outs always sucked.
Crap bs reviews written about us… The few negative reviews GSGS has, currently are from such bullshit. One is from a lady who was mad that we didn’t give her the price she wanted when trying to buy an item and she made all sorts of complete crap up that wasn’t true. Another is from a guy who was mad that he didn’t like a furniture piece that he came to buy and he tried claiming all sorts of crap. Thankfully I can at least respond which I did and will always do…with the FACTS. If we’re wrong, I’ll own up to it. But it sucks that we have had a few people write false and negative content that was completely baseless.
Holding back on eating or eating fast food a lot, doing whatever food wise to save money. Yes I could have called someone for money to let them know I literally was eating less to save money and gotten some help. I didn’t though. I grinded it out. And no, I’ve never gone starving not eating for several days or weeks or anything like that. But I have held back on eating/been hungry and been extremely frugal as to what I’m eating/buying for food many times throughout my grind.
A company/person we partnered with lying to us and not following through on what they were supposed to follow through on, which resulted in bad reviews for us. The dude who we partnered with turned out to be a big time bullshitter. He would say stuff and then not do it, all the time.
Workers not disliking me, but not “liking” me simply because I’m the “boss” and never really giving me a chance. That’s always frustrating. I understand it though and it’s especially hard with part time staff. I can be intense too but I’d like to think that I’ve always tried to make my criticism constructive. I’m sure I’ve failed at that at points but I think overall I’ve been able to give constructive criticism when needed.
Those are some of the ups and downs throughout my life so far. The lists above are mainly focused on my business life. Of course there have been ups and downs in my personal life as well from baseball victories, to being cut from a baseball team to playing really well in baseball to having really bad games in baseball to parents getting divorced to making friends to losing friends to falling in love to getting helped to being screwed over to a ton of small day to day negatives along the way that we all have to deal with in different ways as well as random day to day wins like meeting a cool new friend at the gym you get to talk to while working out every day among others.
Some parting thoughts…
I’m big on speaking my mind, whether it’s the “right” thing to say or not. I’ve definitely spoken my mind to some people throughout my life. I get really frustrated when I feel like someone is playing games with me and not giving me basic respect.
I want to be very successful for a few reasons. 1) Of course, I want the nice things in life and to be able to travel a lot, home movie theater, etc. That’s part of the dream. 2) The other part of the dream is just as genuine. I really want to help a ton of people in different ways from financially with things to help their lives to motivation to get people to go for their dreams. If you have a lot of money and connections, you can do a lot of good.
I’m goofy at heart and that won’t change. I hate when people see my goofiness and don’t take me seriously or don’t see past that. That’s fine though, because I’m not changing. I stay goofy and I’m gonna stay dancing. If I hear music, I have to dance. I’ve been like that since I was a little kid and it hasn’t left me. Music makes me happy.
I love good friends. I hate fake friends and people that talk crap behind my back. I love family. I love Baseball.
I’ve learned that this world is a dog eat dog world. Sucks but it is what it is. There are a lot of crappy people out there who literally don’t care about anyone besides themselves. And I’m not referring to having a bit of an ego, but rather not caring about other people and doing everything with themselves in mind.
To the outside perspective, I hope I don’t come off as having too big of an ego as I don’t have enough to have too big of an ego about to begin with. I am confident though but ego or not, at the end of the day, I seriously want to help a lot of people. And while I make a lot of decisions to try to further my career and businesses, I’m really thinking with a lot of decisions of how I can bring someone up/help someone out in one way or another too (whether it’s a business referral, tip, connecting them to someone that can help them, etc.).
I’m Jewish and proudly so. I’m not super religious, but I’m a proud Jew. A LOT of people have at least some hatred or dislike towards Jewish people. In fact, I truly believe that the majority of people in this world that aren’t Jewish have anti-semitic views (hatred towards Jewish people). This stems from all sorts of reasons including that Jews are a small minority in the world and there are many successful Jews. (There’s a reason Jews are so motivated though – we feel the hatred towards us and over 6 million of us were called in the Holocaust not THAT long ago). There are other reasons as well that people hate or have some sort of dislike towards Jewish people. There isn’t one good reason though and those people really don’t know Jewish people. If you dislike Jewish people, try getting to know one and also try realizing that there’s a lot of love in the Jewish religion and we are good people. 🙂 … If you still dislike us, please don’t ever buy anything from any of my companies. I don’t want your business in any form or fashion. Really bro? Yes, really.
I don’t care what someone looks like, what their job is, etc….if they’re a good person, I’m going to treat them equally, mean that.
I’m not the best person in the world by any means and I most certainly have my flaws. However, I know that my intentions are and have always been great and I genuinely want to do a lot of good in this world. I’m fierce and am in this dog eat dog world as well trying to get to the top, but I’d like to think that I’m one of the dogs that’s helping his comrades as well in this thing we call life. I just can’t wait to be more successful so I can really help my comrades out.
Everything is possible. You can make it anywhere in life no matter where you’re starting. Dream big and go for it.
Remember, everything started as nothing.
P.S. – Feel free to check out my other sites if you want: EverythingStartedAsNothing.com, ChaseMyDream.com, GSBizKit.com, GarageSaleIndustry.com, GrandSlamGarageSales.com, RunMySale.com, PriceMySale.com and AdvertiseMySale.com.
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